What is wrong with people!!

I am so tired of hearing about married cheaters. You don't have to have sex with someone for it to be cheating. If you are married and kiss someone else (not as a friend), and by kissing I mean make out with someone, then you cheated!! Stop being so high and mighty and saying welll we didn't have sex, I love my___________. You obviously don't love them. If you did you would not act on your temptations. You would not snub your nose at other people who cheated on their spouses and say you would never do the same. It happens too often- especially with in the work place and alcohol is not an excuse! It makes me sick, either leave your spouse and have your playtime or don't give in; don't do it and honor your commitment and vows. It is horrible to know someone has been or is being cheated on and they "have no idea". I'm sure if they looked deep down they would know somwthing is fishy. And if you know, do you tell? What a horrible situation to put someone in. What selfish people. I'm just sick and tired of it!